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Tools For Refusing Abduction

This section covers the tools for refusing abduction as has been described to us by our contacts. We have used these tools successfully in refusing alien abduction.

Using The Light

Each one of us has been given a gift from God. It is that spark of light in all of us, God's light. This light is a protective shield from negativity. To find this light one must reach inside themselves, believe in it, and mentally expand it out from the heart. To use the light effectively, one should practice using it often throughout the day. The way to practice using the light is by imagining oneself in a "bubble" of light. Stretch it out. Then stretch it even farther to include those we love, farther yet, to include those that they love. Realize that we can send out the light to protect those around us, but it is each one's choice to accept or to reject the light.

If one uses the light with the proper motivation, always keeping in mind that it is a God-given ability, nothing can penetrate it. Negative things will try to penetrate it from time to time, just waiting for us to let our guards down. The more one uses the light, the stronger it becomes. If done properly one can almost see the bubble of light, and one can definitely feel when it is sent out correctly, with love.

Here is an example of using the light to refuse an attempted negative alien abduction as experienced by one of the authors:

“It was late and I was just about to fall asleep, which is a very vulnerable time (the time between wake and sleep). I felt myself paralyzed. In my mind, no one has the right to invade the space (mind, body, spirit) of another person.

I was upset at this act against my free will. I knew that if I could will any part of my body to move I would be free. It took every ounce of strength, concentration and belief to move my head. Once I moved a part of my body, the beings left.

They tried another time but this time I was armed with a little more truth. The scenario started out the same-it was late and I was almost asleep when I felt paralyzed. I began to pray and ask God for help but I have to admit I was upset and angry with the abductors. One of our benevolent alien contacts "spoke" to me in my head saying, "It's not working because you are not saying it calm enough or kind enough." I stopped my struggle; finished the prayer, sent out love and light, then rolled over and went to sleep. There has been no more abduction attempts like that. The negative beings do influence our dreams so we must be alert to that too. I have learned that fear and anger are negative emotions and when I was feeling anger it only served to "feed" the negative beings making them stronger as I gave them my power.”

Before one even gets out of bed send out the light. Before one goes to sleep at night, pray for protection and send out the light. When one meditates, first ask for guidance and protection and send out the light. Using the light is a practice that can become second nature if practiced often. It is a very important tool for spiritual survival. The more one uses the light, the more one realizes that a person cannot live without it. We cannot do it alone. Trust in the gift that God has given you.


The sound of silence is so seldom heard that many times it is forgotten. Meditation is a tool that can be used to bring peace and balance back into our lives. Meditation is also one of the weapons on our coat of spiritual armor that when practiced consistently and joyfully can help to refuse negative alien encounters. When used together with the white light of protection and balance, meditation brings about attunement with the Creator, which allows one to resist negativity much better. This includes unwanted negative alien encounters. If one is in balance and standing in the light of the Creator, negative aliens cannot step into one’s presence as they are of a negative vibration and repelled by the light.

A person can recognize when they are becoming out of balance as it can be felt in one’s physical being and in one’s thinking process. This is where shorter periods of meditation or mini meditations may be used more frequently during the day. These shorter meditations may be used to help one focus and bring oneself back into balance. One may simply close their eyes for a short period of time and take in deep cleansing breaths. The white light of protection should be sent out before beginning a meditation, and ask for the Creator’s guidance and protection.

There are different ways to meditate and everyone uses a method, which feels right to them as long as attunement with the Creator is achieved. Longer periods of time are necessary to achieve a deeper state of meditation. Meditation may also be achieved with one’s eyes open, perhaps while sitting on a shoreline looking out over a body of water, or peacefully watching a sunset or doing whatever brings peace to one’s soul. It may also be done while performing a simple household chore as long as the mind is in focus and the body is peaceful.

When one feels vulnerable to negativity from the pressures of everyday living or if one feels the need to be protected from a negative alien, close intimacy and attunement with the Creator may be desired and needed. It is important to call upon the Creator and use the tools He has provided as no one can refuse abduction on their own.


Balance is a characteristic needed to refuse abduction. Balance is also very useful in identifying an attempted abduction and having the conviction that you have the right to say "NO"! The first part of balance is to know yourself well enough to recognize when and how you become unbalanced. Recognizing this helps one against negative alien intrusion. The next part is to make a plan to change the actions that lead to a state of unbalance. You may want to divide a sheet of paper into three columns and label them: PROBLEM - STEPS TO CHANGE - SOLUTION. Realize that change cannot occur unless you first realize you have a problem and then think about how to solve the problem.

The first step of thinking about what causes unbalance, means you have to figure out which traps such as: TV, books, sleep, sex, alcohol, drugs, infatuation, etc., which distractions such as: hobbies, family, spouse, children, grandchildren, sports, surfing the net, etc. or which "hot button" items like: road rage, teasing, politics, religion, etc. cause you to slam from calm and centered to unbalanced. By thinking daily about what causes unbalance and then discussing it with a trusted friend, you will be able to identify areas that need work. Realize there is no quitting of old habits "cold turkey"; the change will be gradual but will happen with persistence. It helps to look at your own life and compare where you are today spiritually to where you were in the past, and then compare where you are today to where you would like to be in the future.

One visible sign of change could be a calmer demeanor. You may be less likely to be drawn into argumentative "hot button" issues as in the past. Compassion for others will increase as you witness the struggles others have to make to succeed. You may have a hard time letting go of old thought patterns but realize that God is not finished with anybody yet. Also, please avoid taking someone else's karma as your own, and allow them to make their own choices and reap the consequences. You can warn others about the bad aliens and encourage them to refuse abductions, however if they choose to leave themselves open to negative experiences, their freewill choice must be accepted.

Policing Yourself

As the years went by we decided that we wanted to become better people. We discovered we needed to be balanced, loving and compassionate and not let ego control our lives. Policing ourselves is the tool that we discovered worked best for protecting us from negative aliens and from the negativity on the planet.  

Deciding to make a change was the easy part, now we had to figure out how to keep on the path we had chosen for ourselves. Realizing that we needed to know ourselves better, we worked on analyzing ourselves for months. We could see each other's weaknesses, addictions and problems but rarely could see our own. It took a long time to figure out that we lie to ourselves, make excuses for our behavior or just do not want to put in the effort it takes to become a better human being.

Once we faced ourselves, we realized we needed a plan and came up with these guidelines:

Policing yourself is not an easy thing to do and we often fall back into old patterns of behavior. When this happens, we go back to the policing guidelines and start over. Go out into this big beautiful world and spend less time thinking of only yourself. Try to maintain balance in all aspects of life and take responsibility for all actions.

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This web site is based on the Booklet

"How to Refuse Alien Abduction"

The Lightside UFO Study Group

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